Did you met people that dont whant you to loose weight? Were they your fridends, members of the family? How did you get rid of them or did you?
Do you do that to someone else?
I have a friend that is about 80 pounds havier than me and she is lost in that weight. I know it's hard for her but I think that she gets nerves when I loose a pound or two.
Also, I had a mail friend, he is also overweight. He allways trying to find ways to talk me out of diet or anything else good in my life. And he does it well. I dont know why, but i listen to him. Stupid me.
What do you do?
This time I think I will try (and be succsessful or ?) to ignore them even if I should loose them. Sorry but I have to do that. Would you do it?
Many people are jealous of other people's success. The will be your friend as long as you are in the same shape that they are in.
When you lose all that weight they may no longer want to be your friend but that means they were never really your friends in the first place.
Anyone who would hold you back is not your friend. Friends are supposed to care about you. With friends like that who needs enemies?
I play in bands professionally and I see the fat thin politics play out in the clubs night after night. Heavy single girls do not want slender girls hanging around with them. They don't like the competition. Guys are usually not like that. I have rarely been treated badly by fat men because I am lean and fit. I guess with looks being less important to men they don't worry if another man looks better than them.
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